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Rituals And Routines

Repetition can be soothing and relaxing. It establishes patterns of behaviour that provide an illusion of control in a chaotic world. We incorporate repetitive behaviour into our daily lives to establish routines that enable us carry out every day activities in an efficient and organised way with minimal thought and effort. These routines help provide structure in our lives.

Some routines become so familiar they turn into habits, encoded into our brains to such an extent that our consciousness is engaged only at the start and the end of an activity. Catching the same train to work every day our thoughts are often otherwise occupied: we can get off the train automatically at our destination with little or no recollection of the actual journey.

Rituals differ from routines because of the meanings we associate with them. Rituals are integral to every culture. Shared rituals bind people together in a meaningful experience, synchronising beliefs and practices: they are a way of bonding socially and can be used to define and unify a group, a religion, a sports club, a group of friends; distinguishing members of that group from others.

Families have their own rituals; the way special events are celebrated; behaviours at shared meals, or bed time stories for a child.These express and reinforce feelings of closeness and security and a sense of belonging. Family rituals may be passed down from generation to generation or families may create new ones that have a special meaning for them. Rituals are also particularly important in establishing, maintaining and reinforcing the relationship between couples. Even individuals develop rituals, a long relaxing bath by candlelight at the end of the week for example. 

The problem is that over time rituals may become routines, performed with little thought for the underlying meaning; prayers repeated by rote, greetings or expressions of gratitude with no real intent. There may still something comforting and soothing in the repetition, but they are far less effective in the bonding process. When rituals between two people become routines, when the meaning is lost, the sense of closeness and intimacy is diminished, and it can be important to change rituals or introduce new ones before routine further declines into mere habit.

The rituals of an intimate sexual relationship tend to be of a more private nature than other rituals, and therefore not easily transferred from parent to child or learned through observation of others. Some people therefore look to the rituals of tantric sex to enhance their relationship, particularly those who are also on a quest for spirituality. But it isn’t necessary to adopt all the rituals to benefit from a tantric session, even a few may prove useful; either as they are taught or adapted to suit a particular couple. For example some may not adopt the concept of a tantra goddess and incorporation of the divine, but find synchronised breathing worth exploring. At the very least it should reinforce the importance of rituals in a relationship.

Escort Girls And Their Services

There are many people who need to have their physical needs satisfied through various means. There are married men and women in this world who are not satisfied by each other’s companionship and they are starving for others to satisfy their needs. Mostly the men who are not satisfied with their wives can approach other women who can provide them the services they need by taking the money from them. They are the call girls and many young girls are working as call girls to satisfy their needs in the society. They want to have a luxury life, all assets and to fulfill their requirements they are changing their work style. Many beautiful and attractive women are working as high-class call girls secretly to earn lots of money.

There are many agencies all over the world that can support such girls and make their career as escort girls. Almost in all the countries, there are many opportunities for the beautiful women to work as escorts and to provide their services to their clients by satisfying them in all possible ways. Many high-class families hire these escorts for their special parties to satisfy their guests and they can be paid with high remunerations for their work. VIP London escorts can always have such attractive and efficient escort ladies who can work 24/7 by providing their services to special events, dates, and other parties. When a rich guy celebrates his bachelor party, it is must hire an escort lady to satisfy and to make his guest feel happy in the party. It has almost become the social status for the people to hire such girls.

Depending on the popularity of the escort girl, the agencies are charging their clients. There are some girls who can charge the maximum remuneration as they are very busy and their clients need to take their appointments weeks before to hire them for their parties. Especially in VIP London escorts, top international models can work for only VIPS who need to have their own escort girls while moving on business tours or parties or for special nights. The escort girls need to maintain their body with perfect sizes in order to attract their clients. There are some models who can only visit certain clients as they need to have all types of luxuries and comforts for satisfying their clients.

There are many celebrities who can hire these escort models to accompany them in their tours. Instead of travelling with their family, some people wish to have their private holiday and such people book their escorts for more than week and can pay the money per day. They can simply make a call to the popular escort agency in their place to have a beautiful and attractive blonde escorts in London to satisfy them and to accompany them in their journey for providing pleasure all these days. Sometimes a client can hire an escort for more than one person and can enjoy and have fun altogether and in those cases, these escorts can be paid with more money than actually offered.

Beauty lies not in the Body but In One’s Mind!

The world is a place filled with different kinds of people. No two people are the same and each of us has different characteristics. We all look more or less same, apart from the minor physical features slightly differentiated from one another, but apart from that we all are the same. But this uniformity in our looks should not be mistaken as a mental and psychological one too. We all have different personalities and are completely different when it comes to perceiving the world around us. This perception depends upon a wide range of factors in the person. These factors are associated with his or her inherent personality, his or her encounters while growing up and also as modern research is showing due to different structural orientations of the brain. Learn more about it over at this website.

The term transexual is being used quite often in today’s day and age, especially in the urban localities, where people from different parts of the country are settling to find a better earning and style of living. This is when people start identifying with their own freedom of thoughts etc. and try to find the psychological conflicts that were hiding deep inside them. As a result a man who has always been a dashing young fellow with a good job and a successful career history suddenly starts acting gloomy around his friends and doesn’t want to talk or spend time or even get intimate with his girlfriend. He might have discovered that there is something that is missing in his life. This is the unsettling need to identify completely with the opposite sex contrary to what he was born with. He might want to live and experience life as woman. This experience encompasses all aspects of his life, including sexual, psychological and social.

Therefore,in the modern day, no more is one satisfied with his or her own identity that they were born with. People want to identify with their true selves that is devoid of whatever label the society has given to them. This freedom a person experiences is not an easy one to get. Normally a person has go through years of feeling out of place and neglected and alienated from his own self. Then with the shaping of one’s unique personality with education and a proper understanding of oneself, one can decide he or she is not happy with what they are at that point. The process that follows after this is also a big and complicated one but at least it is one that the individual knows he belongs to.